Trust is essential, and building it accelerates progress. Schools should engage with the community to understand its needs and partner with community members. Different sectors have unique needs, so listening and approaching community interactions with curiosity is critical for success.
Our goal is to reach families— grandparents, aunts and uncles, caregivers, guardians— who don’t come in our hallways and sit in our classrooms. My dream is for students to hear the exact same phraseology we use in school. In other words, when a student comes home, and they’re fighting with their little brother or sister, I’m hoping the parent can say, “Hey, let’s seek first to understand before being understood,” or “Can’t we find a win-win here?” When what we are teaching in the classroom permeates into the homes, we’ve reached our mark.
That goes hand in hand with the community. If they don’t trust us or if they think we’re teaching something that they can’t buy into or believe in, they’re not going to support us. The seven habits are foundational. I don’t think there’s a single community member who would look at those seven practices and say, “I don’t think it’s important to seek win-win” or “I don’t think it’s important to sharpen the saw.” All those habits resonate, and if we can emphasize those daily, they trickle back into the family, which then trickle into the community.