Renee McLamb: We’re part of an accrediting association that developed the “Flourishing Schools Model,” which allows us to collaborate with heads of schools across the country. This partnership has been incredibly beneficial, especially for discussing topics like the legal aspects of technology—something I’ll be attending a seminar on soon. For instance, our campus has 48 security cameras monitored by a dedicated team of seven staff members, ensuring both security and effective use of technology. Our IT team includes both on-campus staff and external support, though I often rely on our tech-savvy students to troubleshoot minor issues quickly.
While we welcome anyone who wants to be part of our collaborative environment, our enrollment is currently at capacity, which is a good problem to have when building the budget. We also see a growing need for mental health support, partly due to issues raised in “The Anxious Generation” by Jonathan Haidt, which highlights the rise in mental health challenges among students, particularly girls, due to social media. The data is alarming, with significant increases in mental health issues linked to technology use. While we have academic support through student services, we’re considering adding a dedicated counselor to address students’ social and emotional needs driven by these digital influences.
Sarah Garrett: I often think about identity and how technology influences it through a reward system, similar to Pavlov’s experiment with conditioned responses. A notification ping from a text message, for example, can act as instant validation, making people feel acknowledged or valued. This can create a dependence on external validation, which isn’t natural and shouldn’t define one’s identity. At our school, we emphasize that identity goes beyond these influences; it includes a spiritual dimension. We discuss openly in class how true identity is found in one’s spiritual understanding, particularly in faith, rather than in superficial standards set by media, like appearance or perceived success.
Many students feel pressure to “check boxes” to feel good enough, striving to meet societal expectations for excellence. While grades and accomplishments matter, they don’t define a person’s worth. We encourage students to see their greater purpose as positively influencing others and making meaningful connections. True identity comes not from titles or achievements but from their impact on others. Our school’s focus on students’ spiritual futures sets us apart, teaching them that their purpose is much greater than the grades they earn or the colleges they attend.
Renee McLamb: What’s fascinating about this book (“The Anxious Generation”) is that an atheist wrote it, yet after extensive data and studies on various faiths, the author concludes that students who flourish are those with some type of faith rituals and a sense of belonging. He found that these students navigate the challenges of technology more effectively. This realization drew me in, as the author, despite his atheism, recognized that students with connections to faith or a supportive community are better equipped to handle today’s complex, tech-driven world.
Sarah Garrett: This balance likely stems from having a solid sense of identity. Without that, it’s easy to adopt whatever identity social media projects, much like how vulnerable populations can fall under the influence of a cult. Technology can replace personal identity if there’s no strong foundation, and we aim to protect future generations from being held captive by this. What’s unique here is how students interact—they see the world deeply, support one another, pray together and encourage each other in a way I haven’t seen elsewhere. This connectedness fosters a special sense of community and resilience.
Renee McLamb: We have the advantage of small class sizes, with one teacher for every 18 to 20 students, which allows us to build strong relationships. I tell our teachers we’re not “better” than public schools; we’re simply different in philosophy. Our students are selected and tested into our program, so we have an opportunity to connect with them more closely than a school with 37 students per class might. Currently, about 20 alumni now send their children here, many of whom I taught as second graders. Seeing former students return as parents is a beautiful, generational fulfillment of our vision, especially when I recall some who spent considerable time in my office and are now part of our community again with their own families.
Sarah Garrett: And I have two seniors who started here as preschoolers and attended school all the way through to their senior year. How special is that? I can’t even imagine being able to maintain the same connections and friendships my entire school career.
Renee McLamb: I want to share a personal story about my son. At 41, he’s a father of two, but it all started back in eighth grade when a drama teacher, John Wright, put a camera in his hand along with a half-written script. That moment sparked his passion for filmmaking. Under Mr. Wright’s guidance, he learned how to film and edit, which has led him to win nine Emmys and create content for PBS.
Mr. Wright recognized my son’s potential and nurtured it, helping him realize his dreams. I can tell you countless stories about students like him—nurses, doctors and engineers—who have thrived because someone believed in them. This is why I believe it’s so important to have strong programs in place; if we have a student who could be an engineer but is stuck in a subpar math program, we risk losing sight of the purpose they were created for.
That’s why we strive for good scores—not just to boast about Northwood Temple Academy, but to position our students to become everything they were designed to be.
Sarah Garrett: Smaller class sizes are essential because they allow teachers to connect with students on a deeper level. In overcrowded classrooms, there’s often little time to greet each student or identify those who may be struggling. This is one of the main reasons I chose not to work in public schools; I didn’t want to be in an environment where I couldn’t invest in my students’ futures.
I’ve experienced overcrowding even in preschools, and it’s clear that when classes are too full, teachers can’t perform their jobs effectively. Maintaining the right student-to-teacher ratio is crucial for fostering an environment where students can excel in their studies.